9 month Stats:
Height 27.5 inches=25th Percentile
Weight 18lbs 10oz=25th Percentile
Head Circumference 46.75 =95th Percentile
We sure didn't do our kids any favors with the small size genes.
Let me tell you about this little princess that has full hold of our heart.
- I love her name. Her father worried I'd never completely feel her name was right, even though he knew it was. I didn't help things when I was on morphine in the hospital and called her the wrong name a lot. That has all changed. She is a Priya Lynn! I love saying her name and hearing how eligant, unique and beautiful it is to speak. I also feel that her namesake matches her well, just like Porter's does and that's how I like it. Her Daddy found the perfect match for this girl.
- She is going through a Cowardly Lion phase. She has anxiety with strangers. She also has great ability and I think she's often frightened at the situations she gets herself into. She also HATES to fail and gets embarrassed easily. Her doctor explained to me that she has a strong personality and based on my description she isn't feeling secure about herself yet. He gave me some pointers and after spending a little time with her said he felt she'd come through this soon and do well.
- Our pediatrician said as he summed up our visit, "With the exception of walking she's basically a 1 year old." Maybe to his charts, but to me she's still my baby. I had a great visit with our pediatrician today. At well-checks he's very focused on the child the appointment is for but also inquires and checks on our family/Porter providing a good environment for development as a whole. He explained to me how most 2nd children learn very differently than the first and learn through watching and mimicking their older sibling. He also told me 2nd children tend to be very assertive, um... yeah she is!
| Cheesin' for the Camera |
- Priya has a gift for language and speech. Maybe this wouldn't seem so extraordinary to me if my first wasn't delayed in speech but I'm in awe of all the words that come out of her mouth. The other day Porter said, "Ouch" for the first time as a way to express a located pain, a huge step to us. Then on the same day Priya hurt herself and repeated my response, "Ouch". It was ironic to me that they'd both make a big step with the same word on the same day.
- She has the best baby cuddles. If you're lucky enough to be the recipient of one you'll enjoy it. Her arms wrap around your neck, her head falls to your shoulder and her nose nuzzles right in. Close your eyes and let the moment seep into your heart because at the first distraction her head will pop up and her arms with be pushing to be released so she can go check out what's going on in her baby world.
- The girl has a curious mind. In this aspect of her personality she is fearless. She wants to know. (period) If there is something she wants to hold, something she wants to taste, something she wants to read, play with, examine, shove in her mouth or see she will stop at nothing to get it. You can't distract her from what she wants, all her effort and energy goes into her determination until she has triumphed. It's a little tiring on us as her parents. I hope we can be patient with her because this is a great quality I think.
| "Oh yeah, I'll show you again." Practicing her grown up skills. |
| "Oh, I see what you're saying. That's what happens when I stuff a bouncy ball in my mouth." |
- She has 7 teeth. Yep. We hear, "Look at all those teeth." As we talk with ward members.
| You can see the 3 teeth on bottom in this pic. |
- She weaned herself this past week. Her feedings became less and less frequent until we were only doing one feeding in the morning. She starting having reflux from my milk and with only one feeding I didn't want to examine my diet to see why so we just stopped. She loves her bottle and with 7 teeth I'm giving myself a break on not making it a whole year. 9 months is pretty good and we have better bonding moments during bottle feedings because she doesn't stop eating if we make eye contact. Kind of a sad/good thing.
- We've been doing baby food for about 3 months and she has pretty much transitioned to table food now. She doesn't like puree and wants to eat what we eat so anything that we can safely feed her we do. Last night she piked up a spoon I had waiting on her tray for her next bit and she successfully fed herself.
| You're not seriously going to feed me that, right? |
- She is ACTIVE! This girl never sits in one place for any amount of time. If she does stay stationary her hands are busy playing, banging and shuffling her toys around.
busy, busy, busy
- Because of the business she burns through calories and eats a ton. She has 5 servings of solids a day with 3-5 bottles in the mix. But she isn't gaining weight -- in fact her weight gain has decreased. So we don't worry about the endless appetite.
- Priya's words that have meaning include: Momma, Dadda, Dog, Eat, Yeah, Yay, Hi, Hey and Bye-Bye. So dang cute! She says a lot of other things but it's just mimicking us. My personal favorite is, "Okay." She has even put words together before like, "Look Dad". But I think she hears her brother say it shortly before her. She tried to say Porter last night, so maybe we'll get to hear that word soon as well! It's just incredible to me how easily it comes to her. This may end up being a bad thing when she's a bit older I can already see the report card comment, "Talks at inappropriate times." Aaron says she'll also learn how to say, "You're ruining my life!" sooner as well. *Nose crinkle*
- I'm still the favorite but she is a major Daddy's girl. She cried when he left this morning for work and will squeal with delight when he gets home. She gets so excited to see him she almost hyperventilates.
| Daddy's Girl |
- Priya has conflicted feelings about her brother. She loves him, wants to be like him, and thinks he's funny. Porter likes to play though and he just doesn't completely understand that Priya doesn't like to wrestle like the little boys at school. I asked the doctor about this and he offered tips to prevent it, but didn't think it would stop because P's, "Just trying to have fun." Which was nice to hear that my boy isn't malicious but just trying to love his sister like he does his friends. One day it will work and since my blog post admitting their rocky relationship they've had a handful of shining peaceful play moments together and this momma hopes they figure it out soon. That's siblings for you, though. Aaron and I both loved having a sibling close to use in age, it was a lot of fun, but we both remember fighting as well. Who didn't fight with their siblings?
- Lynnie loves herself a good beat. Baby's are the cutest dancers. She bops up and down. Waves her arms from side to side. It's darling.
- She makes the girliest noises. Eh! as her voice rises and squeals and squeaks. She's also really into smacking her lips, raspberries, fishy face, and this weird noise she makes as she sucks her lips into her mouth. Silly girl.
| fishy face |
- She has added to her love of cars with a, "Vroom, Vroom" sound that she busts out when she's playing cars.
| Loves her trucks! |
- Just like we saw with her brother's development, her skills change focus and gross motor is taking a back seat at the moment. Mostly because of the fear of failure thing. She has been pulling to stand for a long time and even pushing a walking toy around with little support. But when we try to show her how to cruise she gets mad at us, falls on her bum (which is so traumatic) and refuses to try again. Which is fine, we'll spend time celebrating her efforts when she initiates those moments on her own and hope she doesn't give up.
- She has climbed our small flight of stairs. I was at Young Women's when she did it for the first time which was sad for me, but she did it again when I got home. With this scaredy cat business, however, she gets up one or two stairs and is then petrified that she is stranded in her mind. She just goes ridged with fear. She clings on for dear life and bawls until we can reach her to comfort her. BTW- Priya requires full-on cuddling for comfort, no pats on the back or being close. She demands being held, which we love, it just eliminates our chance to show her she can do it and it's alright.
- The way to win Priya's affection is through graham crackers.
| She eats them so quickly. |
- She's finally becoming interested in books being read to her instead of using them for a teether. She has always enjoyed poetry and rhythmic pieces being read to hear, but books are creeping into her interests now.
- She is a good sleeper (knock on wood). At this point in her life you can expect her to sleep 12 hours a night with one bottle feeding in there somewhere. Uninterrupted nights from her are becoming more frequent. She takes 2 - 30 to 45 minute naps during the day. She toyed with the one long nap during a growth spurt but gave it up as soon as she was through it. She also refuses to fall asleep anywhere but her crib, making church tough. The rest of the time, it's bliss.
- She enjoys other children and tries to be social with other babies her age.
- She doesn't like winter or wind.
- She's starting to laugh at things she watches us do, which cracks me up because we're not trying to make her laugh but then I hear her giggling and realize the humor of what's going on.
- We continue to try and help her let loose every once and awhile to have some good old rowdy house Gelter family fun. She's getting better at chase, wrestling and family tickles. She actually smiles now and laughs. Maybe one day we'll have her instigating such actives.
| Headed into the action. |
| Maybe regretting her choice a little. |
- She still is one of the best criers I know and she has figured out exactly what to do to get under my skin and convince my brain that I'm traumitizing my child by not giving her exactly what she wants. I'm trying hard not to spoil her, but she knows how to push my buttons. Sometimes I find myself vacuuming with her in one arm and think...how did this happen?
- She loves Sydney and he does very well with her. She's gentle by nature with him and he is very affectionate towards her.
- Her hair is definitely blond but it has different colored tones to it. Maybe one day she'll have enough we'll know a little better what her golden locks will look like.
- I have yet to mention how breathtakingly beautiful this girl is. Her features are just so faminine, as are her mannerisms.
- I love to make eye contact with Priya across a room and give her one of 'our' smiles because it never fails, I get one right back. She's so expressive with her entire face, but especially with her eyebrows. They crack me up.
Priya Lynn--
We're so grateful you decided to bless our family by joining us here. We thank God for you every single day! We feel of your spirit often and know that you are a choice daughter of God and that He loves you very much. We hope to be an intricate part of your spiritual life here on earth and that you'll think of us when life throws you challenges.
All Our Love Forever & Always,
Mommy & Daddy



















